The Oh So Gentle Art of Butt Play
Even as ass play enters the sexual mainstream, you still need to ease into that delicate spot
I will admit to being somewhat of an ass fanatic. I’ve always admired the shape of a gorgeous butt, and on the rare occasion in my past when I got to play with one sexually… Hallelujah.
You can imagine my joy these past few years as anal sex has pivoted from a pretty risqué, ‘out-there’ sex act into the mainstream. You can’t read an article about sex these days without being reminded that ass play is the new normal. Anal August, Butt Stuff 101 … anal sex is becoming ubiquitous and — at least from my observation — seems to be joining the ranks of missionary, oral sex, and doggy style as the standard repertoire in the sex tool box.
For the anally-obsessed like me, this is wonderful news. But what about those who are still a little less enthusiastic about ass play?
It is absolutely essential to remember that just because anal may be having a moment now, there are still many, many people — men and women — who are not down with backdoor pass.
A few things to keep in mind:
- ass play still always — ALWAYS — needs to be pre-negotiated. It is not ok to, unannounced, start with a finger, toy, or tongue against the rear entrance. If you would like to play back there, please ask…
