My Partner is Masturbating Beside Me As I Sleep and I’m a Little Freaked Out

Ok — Actually I’m a little turned on.

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This question came up in an advice column I read. A guy said he is sometimes awakened by the sound and movement of his wife’s side of the bed. As he rouses from sleep, he realizes she is masturbating in bed beside him. It’s a pretty regular occurrence, and since he’s a light sleeper, he wakes up…