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Has Mainstream Porn Fallen Victim to Anal-Capture

Chai Steeves
2 min readJan 14, 2025

I’m having a really hard time finding quality porn that isn’t all about the a*$

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I’m a fan of butt sex. I like doing it; I like watching it.

But my wife is a little less enamored. When it comes to both watching and a little anal goes a long way for her.

So when it comes to watching porn together, she’ll be ok with a little bit of anal sex, but she certainly doesn’t want to see it all the time, and she likes the anal sex she has to see to be pretty light and gentle.

That brings me to the horns of my dilemma. It feels like anal is absolutely everywhere in porn these days.

We like a specific type of porn — reasonable storyline, attractive actors who can passably act, good lighting, and substantial production value. We used to enjoy the movies companies like Wicked put out .. if anyone can remember the early 2000s.

There are fewer high-budget, high-production value movies today, but there are still a few. Series like The Submission of Emma Marks are wonderful -great acting (for porn, lol) and very sex-positive. It’s everything we like, but they all have anal.

Maybe it’s a generational thing, and we just need to get with the times. In the good old days, an intense sex scene had oral, penetrative sex in a few positions, and then a ‘money shot. Anal made an occasional appearance, but it was an exception.

The ‘standard’ has evolved. It now seems ubiquitous that oral includes rimming and licking of the ass, and penetration with both finger and cock is typically now both vagina and ass.

For many — likely most — this is fine. Sex evolves. But for the less advanced, how about a few more throw backs to a more demure time?

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Chai Steeves
Chai Steeves

Written by Chai Steeves

eclectic guy - likes sexuality, politics, business, relationships, celebrity trivia...

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