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Expanding Our Erotic Imagination
or… what porn is awesome
We all get caught in ruts. Whether it’s at work, what you eat, or your sex life — we get used to something we like ‘well enough,’ we get lazy, and we stop looking for variety.
There are few places where these ruts are more pronounced than in the bedroom. We fall into a pattern, either with our partner or on our own, where we know what works for us, and we repeat, repeat, repeat. I’ve spoken with countless couples who will describe having become bored with the ritual of a little manual stimulation, missionary sex, orgasm, andsleep. And for solo sexcapaders, they have their go-to videos that get them off, so they find these on Porn Hub and have a predictable wank before tucking in for the night.
I’m not immune from these patterns, so I recently took it upon myself to try to break out of some of my patterns. I decided that on the evenings that I’m ‘left to my own erotic devices’, I would search a little more broadly in my porn repertoire and try to find some new things that would excite me and that I might bring back into the bedroom with my partner.
So, armed with a bottle of lube and some tissues, I set off to explore the depths of my favorite porn sites. Hard labor, huh?
After extensive research, I found a few things I hadn’t been exposed to before but enjoyed…