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Does Anal Sex Live Up to the Hype

3 min readApr 7, 2025
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Anal sex has become so mainstream. It’s hard to find porn that doesn’t include it, and according to my friends who are actively dating, it’s become pretty standard fare in their worlds.

For me, anal sex — or anal play of any kind — is still pretty exotic. I’ve gotten a little experience through both my wife and girlfriend, but it’s rare enough that it’s still very rarefied and exotic.

I suspect that the fact that I get anal play so infrequently is part of the reason I covet it so much. It’s like the forbidden fruit, and I seem to want more every time I get a tiny taste.

But here is an interesting observation I’ve made recently.

In the past six months or so, my wife has been much more indulgent in my desire for the ass. She recently role-played a scenario where she pretended to be a cam girl and had been paid by her patrons to play with her ass. She did an elaborate scenario where she teased her ass and then played with it with both fingers and toys. She finally invited me to come in and have sex with her, as I admitted to her bejeweled butt plug.

The whole scenario blew my mind. I loved it.

And more recently, she’s invited me to lick or play with her ass and has said she would love to get to the point where we could actually have anal sex.

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Chai Steeves
Chai Steeves

Written by Chai Steeves

eclectic guy - likes sexuality, politics, business, relationships, celebrity trivia...

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