Can Using A Safe Word In BDSM Allow You To Take Things To The Next Level?

Chai Steeves
4 min readNov 27, 2021

I’ve never used a safe word, but wondering now if I’m missing out a bit.

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Over the past couple of years, my wife and I have been experimenting with BDSM. It’s a bit of a trope, but my wife has a very high-powered, intense job, so it has always been a massive thing for her to find ways of giving up control. It doesn’t come easily for her —…

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Chai Steeves

eclectic guy - likes sexuality, politics, business, relationships, celebrity trivia...