Are You Using the Right Butt Plug For Your Own Delicate Ass?
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Yes .. size does matter but so dies shape
You want to stick that in there; are you freaking kidding me?!?! My friend and I had ordered a set of butt plugs for our wives, keen to indulge in our newfound interest/obsession with ass play. Their response was, to put it mildly, mixed.
Both my wife and her friend have been trying to open their minds (and asses) to these anal fantasies my friend and I have had for ages. And while we’ve all played around down there a bit in the past, it’s been more because they want to indulge us than them genuinely enjoying it.
And while the last thing I wanted to do was pressure my wife and our friend to offer up their asses, I really, really did want their asses. So, you can imagine my joy when my wife, out of the blue, decided to resolve to learn to enjoy ass-play.
We started by ordering a new butt plug kit. We’d had ass toys in the past, but this felt like a new beginning, so we decided that new toys would be a symbolic way to usher in the new era.
We ended up ordering four new butt plugs. The first package was a pretty standard set of three — ranging in size from the dainty and unintimidating to the — what my wife called — unimaginable. The fourth was a style we’d not seen before — longer but narrow in width and with no thick ‘bulb’ as most other butt plus have.
It was this fourth toy that intrigued my wife the most. She had played with butt plugs before and always hated- even for the smaller plugs — that moment when the thick part of the butt plug would slide into her. That sudden widening was jarring to her, and she was — frankly — terrified of it. The idea that a toy could slide into her ass steadily and gradually was very appealing to her.
So, the narrow butt plug. The first time we tried, it was a game-changer. First, I licked and massaged her ass a little to get her in the mood and to relax her as we started. She then took over, rubbing some lube on her bum and gently sliding her finger inside a little bit. Once she felt ready, she put more lube on the butt plug and pressed it lightly against her ass.
No one was more surprised than she was when that sleek little toy slid right inside her. There was no hesitation, gasping, or pain — just a slight sensation of being as little ‘full’ in there. I almost lost my mind. It was so sexy. It was an awesome night, and it felt like it — for the first time — opened the (back) door to all kinds of new sexual adventures for us.
For many, ass play is a loaded and stressful proposition. Ass play has the challenge of being both potentially painful and perceived as dirty and unhygienic. But, as a guy who likes to have his ass played with, I can say that the pleasure that can be derived and the taboo that can be embraced make it all worth it. But it’s a challenge. So, finding suitable toys and approaches can be a great reset on your path to ass play — so get after it!
