A Call to Heterosexual Guys — Embrace your Ass

Your prostate deserves a pleasurable exploration.

Photo by Erik Lucatero on Unsplash

I’ve been trying to ease off the sexual posts recently, steering more into longevity, politics, and social issues.

However, this is a wellness and lifestyle blog, and sexual health and adventure are integral to wellness, aging well, and — to be honest — the pleasure side of life.

So I need to share a recent discovery.

My ass.

I’ve known that I like light assplay for years. I enjoy playing with my partner’s ass, and I’ve always liked it when she plays with mine. But it’s a rarity. My wife is not really keen on assplay (especially her playing with mine). And our girlfriend, while she does enjoy it, because we are together less frequently, we tend not to prioritize the ass.

And, to the extent I’ve had my own ass played with, it has been very light and superficial — like a finger or toy just exploring a bit.

Until this weekend.

We had planned a long, sexy night with our closest friends. We hadn’t seen each other in a while, so the anticipation was definitely running high.

The first part of the evening was intense, very loving, and an amazing reconnection.