Flipping the narrative on our traditional butt play scenario My wife is not into anal sex. I’ve written on this before. She has honestly tried, but she cannot seem to relax enough to enjoy it. …

My friend had her computer taken over by a porn site. When the cat’s away, the mouse needs to play (alone, with porn). A good friend of ours is home alone with her kids this week, as her husband travels for work. While this used to be a regular thing…

And why that may not be as bad as it sounds. Sex and a weak economy are a long-standing dynamic duo. …

Men may not be the sex obsessed neanderthals you thought. We’ve been socialized to believe that men are sex-starved oafs, forever searching for their next conquest or orgasm. …

Staying cool, hydrated and slippery on your next beach day. I think you can recall when in your mind, each year, summer officially begins. For us, it was this past weekend. The weather was predicted to hit 32 degrees (90 Fahrenheit for my American friends). The second we saw the…

Ok — Actually I’m a little turned on. This question came up in an advice column I read. A guy said he is sometimes awakened by the sound and movement of his wife’s side of the bed. As he rouses from sleep, he realizes she is masturbating in bed beside…

Have I been thrusting all wrong for all these years? I always thought I was pretty good at sex. But today I read a post by a writer I like a lot — Mysterious Witt — that has me questioning some pretty fundamental element of my sexual style. In her…

Drawing the line between being our true sexual selves and being good neighbors. Our cottage is our adult oasis. I realize this may sound somewhat heretical to the millions of family cottage-goers who consider cottages wholesome family bonding opportunities. It simply has not worked out that way for us. Our…

The opening scene of the TV show Billionaire — a gorgeous woman in leather, is squatting over an older man who is tied up and obviously her sub. After a couple of light taps from her flogger, a stream of urine rains upon him. He is the district attorney for…