I think I am — and I’ll tell you why I love traveling to Europe, and I’ve missed it tremendously these past few years. I feel very at home in the bustle of Amsterdam, Paris, or Lisbon. There is a frenetic pace but also a relaxed attitude and liberal mindset…

Given how much I like nudity (short answer — quite a lot), I’ve been to surprisingly few nude beaches. My impression of nude beaches, and the nudist community in general, is that there is little overlap between it and the sexy or lifestyle community. This is not to say that…

The evening before pot was legalized, Chelsea Hadler — the comedian — gave a talk in the country’s capital. The title of her bit was something like “This Is Your Future, Canada.’ It was a riveting discussion. She spoke about her experience with marijuana in Los Angeles; how she had…

Both Canada and the United States will celebrate their national holidays this year. If you’re a sexual advocate like I am, it’s easy not to feel very proud of our countries right now. The US is stripping its citizens of their right to make fundamental decisions regarding their bodies and…

The best options may surprise you. The first two stories showing up on my social media newsfeeds this morning provided an insightful juxtaposition of these times. The first, not surprisingly, was a summary of the latest evidence from the January 6th commission, where Cassidy Hudson provided evidence of President Trump’s…

Owning our sexuality is more important than it has every been and it’s great to see people celebrating it. The other day I noticed that a friend on Twitter — Honeyspoon — had, for the first time, posted a photo of herself that was both sensual and revealed her face…

Between the overturning of Row v Wade and the limp response to school shootings, that the Hell is going on in this place? And is there — please — a middle ground and a strategy to get there. I don’t usually write about politics, preferring to blog on lighter and…

Great memories of sexual moments realized (and missed) My wife has a fantastic ass. She has a great, athletic body overall, but her ass is phenomenal. Last night, over a couple glasses of wine, I asked her if she has always had a great ass and whether she always knew…

In an age of porn and pretty people, are we wanting our real life connections to have more of an intellectual spark? A friend recently wrote on Twitter, “The mental connection is far more important to me than the physical. Make me laugh, entice me, ignite me.” I first heard…