Nov 6Member-onlyHow to Balance The Sexy, The Intellectual, and The AdventurerI’ve been having a hard time motivating myself to write lately. As those who follow me know, my writing tends to focus on issues of a sexual nature — sexual exploration, sexual advice, sexual science. When I’ve tried to steer toward other topics, I tend not to get a lot…Life2 min readLife2 min read
Oct 9Member-onlyFacebook versus OnlyFans — Exhibitionism in all its varying degreesI have a thing for Miley Cirus. Her bad girl meets country girl meets ‘couldn’t give a sh*t what you think meets ‘I’m actually kind of sweet and thoughtful’ — that’s my kind of girl. So, whenever she shows up on my Facebook feeds in one of her sexy little…Sex2 min readSex2 min read
Sep 27Member-onlyThe Trans Debate…. are we putting our most vulnerable kids in the middle of a politician-created culture war?For what it’s worth, I believe kids should be allowed to choose their pronouns and use whichever bathroom they choose, and that this is their call, not their parents’ decision. Yet, I don’t think they should be able to play on any sports team they want, and I feel they…Transgender2 min readTransgender2 min read
Sep 16Member-onlyRemember When You Had To Work Really Hard to See Someone Naked?Are Twitter, Pornhub and OnlyFans desensitizing us to the thrill of nudity? I remember it like it was yesterday. I was about 13 years old and had accidentally walked in on my dad’s best friend and his wife as they were getting ready to come out to the pool for…Sex3 min readSex3 min read
Sep 5Member-onlyHas Burning Man Flamed Out?Torrential downpours leaving thousands stranded to their knees in muck and with little food and no transportation out… is this where it ends? Burning Man has been on my bucket list for years. A week of kick-ass music and art, a sexy vibe, and party drugs with thousands of like-minded…Burning Man3 min readBurning Man3 min read
Sep 3Member-onlyIs Gone With the Wind Perhaps the Perfect Novel?It’s a long read but worth it, in so many ways. A good book should entertain you, teach you something, and — hopefully, if it’s really, really good — help you unlearn something you felt you knew. It is impossible to overstate how the American Civil War classic, Gone With…Life3 min readLife3 min read
Aug 16Member-onlyA Tuesday Night at the Strip ClubI really need to be reexamining my life — and fortunately there was a stripper who was happy to help out. When I agreed to meet a friend for after-work drinks last Tuesday, this was not where I was expecting the evening to go. We usually go to pretty nice…Sex3 min readSex3 min read
Aug 14Member-onlyWho is Watching 3 Hour Porn Flicks?In an age of instant gratification and 30 second videos, why are porn movies getting so long … I think I’ve figured it out. It’s become trite to say it, but our attention spans are sh&t these days. Between Twitter, YouTube, and all the other social media platforms, we’ve become…Sex3 min readSex3 min read
Jun 24Member-onlyThe Year of the Bisexual PromLast night was prom night, and there seemed be hardly a boy/girl couple to be found… and this is very bad for men… read on. This year, my wife and I have had the privilege to twice, participate in one of the most cherished moments of parenting — Prom Night…Sexuality3 min readSexuality3 min read
May 15Member-onlyHere’s To Boozy Summer Afternoon’s on a Patio With Sexy FriendsLet me try to describe my perfect day. It’s a Saturday in early summer or late spring. It’s one of the first truly hot days of the year — like, a day that you couldn’t dream of wearing long pants, and you sweat just a tiny bit as soon as…Summer1 min readSummer1 min read
